I don’t disagree with you about clear personal attacks – those aren’t cool and should be reported. I don’t agree with you, though, that it’s “always” the people trying to play nice who are told to change their behavior; firstly, I wasn’t suggesting that to begin with, but secondly, I think everyone should, in general, take a deep breath before replying and remember that the vast majority of people consider themselves the hero of their own story, and many times discord takes flight from a misunderstanding. Frankly, both in real life as well as on a message board, I have seen “nice guys” be anything but. It’s often a matter of perspective.
When I made my post above, I was thinking about times I’ve witnessed on this board where some people have been attacked for expressing their opinion, and the attacking party was doing so defensively because they took personal offense to something that was not personal in nature. I think we recently had a spirited discussion on Chick-fil-A that potentially veered into this territory. Some people looooooove the chicken sandwiches. Some people haaaaaaaaaaate the politics of that chain. While I have an opinion on that issue, someone expressing their love for the fried chicken sandwich they can only get 6 days/week doesn’t offend me in the least, even though I personally can’t see myself giving Chick-fil-A a nickel of my money.
Maybe I didn’t express myself clearly above, but the point I was trying to make was that the vast majority of us are here to post about food, and that’s what brings us here, so my suggestion is to keep that in focus and not let all the other stuff bother us so much, especially since I’m sure much of it has to do with misunderstandings and NOT bona fide ill intent.
Thanks for the link to Scenestar. Since I stopped picking up the LA Weekly I have not found any good overview of music events in town and that one seems quite thorough.
If you don’t put the divider for the person behind you in a checkout line, I think less of you
If you don’t put your shopping cart back to the front where you got it or at least to the cart corral nearby, I also think less of you, you selfish mofo